mars man, venus women

life and love is so unpredictable.. maybe i should go out and get a copy of john gray's infamous "Men are from Mars & Women are from Venus" (is dat correct?) book.. i only have 3 weeks left to be with hub before i'm off for the 6 months thingy.. i often wonder whether we are right for each other.. but it's useless thinking cuz this is fate.. i must accept this choice i made.. and be responsible for it.. shoulder this burden and learn to overcome the humps. it is the only way.. afterall, isn't our existence on Earth as humble beings to serve Allah s.w.t... life on Earth is only a blink of time in comparison to eternal life after death.. put things in that perspective and everything becomes simpler and less complicated.. we all fear the unknown.. but some things are unavoidable and meant to happen..